Many of us are awkward when it comes to most anything, especially when it comes to anything love related. We could use a few tips.
1. Embrace the Awkward that is You
You are awkward and that is 100% okay. That's just you. You have to be okay with the fact that you will probably never be what one would call "smooth". If a guy is going to be interested in you, it should be for you, the real you, the awkward you.
2. Don't Obsess Over The Screw Ups
You will mess up when trying to flirt. It's inevitable. You have to be able to not let the screw ups get to your head. You can always try again. Yes, it will be weird, and yes, you will feel embarrassed, but you can overcome it.
3. Stop Trying to Pretend You're Good at This
You should be upfront with the fact that you are sort of odd. You can't pretend that you know what you're doing. Even if he buys it in the beginning, it will eventually come out that you're not who you've pretended to be.
4. Don't Give Up
No matter how terrible things can go, it's not the end of the world. You can keep trying and maybe you'll get the hang of this flirting thing. You can't give up just because you're not good at something. That's really just a reason to try harder.
Though flirting may seem impossible now, remember that you can do it.
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